From Karen Forman
Just wanted to give a quick update on what God has been doing at the ROCK. We have been so blessed watching these lives change and I do mean changed. We had some students that have become very special to our hearts (well they all are but these are bonding with us). They are students that we never thought we would see breakthroughs in. Two of the boys that seem to be there every time the doors are opened, we have started seeing huge changes in their lives. These two young men would never say please and thank you when they first came. We have spent months of working on this and now we are seeing the fruit of our labor. Not only are they saying please and thank you they are holding others accountable to do so also. One of the young men came in last Friday night and handed me $5.00. He said “Miss Karen, when you order pizza tonight can you order a whole one for me.” We order pizza on Friday and Saturday nights and sell them for $1.00 a slice, we get the pizzas for $5.00 a pie. This is one of our students they comes in free and does a chore to do so on Friday and Saturday nights, so of course I asked him where he got the money…. He then told me that he had a teacher (which we verified ) that has started giving him 50 cents for every green mark he gets in all of his classes. He got paid last Friday and had $5.00. I ordered him a pizza and watched in amazement when the pizza came in and he gave every slice away to others who had no pizza. We give him a free slice for work he does around the ROCK and he gave all his pizza away and ate the free slice we give him. We have been trying to teach him and his brother the principle of giving a receiving. We wonder sometimes if it ever sinks in. It was so beautiful to see God at work in his little life!!! This was one of our hard core students he was constantly in trouble every where!
We were very blessed to have our son Joey and 3 guys who are in a class with him come down from Nashville Tennessee while Howard was recovering from surgery. They came down and taught on Thursday night and had games and things for the students. They then stayed on Friday and Saturday night and played games with the students and danced with the students and shared their lives with them. Joey taught on Thursday night about TRUTH and told them that everything in God’s Word is true. He challenged them that if they had any questions about the Bible to come back on Friday or Saturday night and ask him and he would show them the answer the Bible. Well don’t you know that on Friday night one of the students we have been pouring into (remember the boy who I shared at Christmas had nothing) came in and said to me “where is your son? I said he is here tonight and this young man said well I have a question for him – I want to know how you know you are really going to heaven). WOW!!!!!!! did that open a huge door! I took him to Joey and Joey was able to sit down with him and get in the Word with him and show him scriptures…. The boy told him – I know about Matthew in the Bible. Because the men working here gave me a Bible and I have been reading it when I get bored and i keep on reading Matthew. The men had given him one of the Bibles that had been purchased for the ROCK and they are simple new testaments with real life testimonies of folks in between each chapter. Matthew is the first chapter so I guess he has been reading it over and over. How neat to see that the Bibles we have given out are being used! Well Howard and I were at the ROCK on the next Sunday cleaning up after a party that had rented out the ROCK for the day. Don’t you know this boy came by knocking on the door. I opened the door and said you know the ROCK is closed today and we are just here cleaning. He said to me I know I want to help you clean – can I help you? We let him in and he helped take the trash out and clean up. I asked him did he get his answer to his question on Friday night and he said yes and started singing a little chorus – “Chad’s going to heaven, Chad’s going to heaven”. It was so beautiful to hear those words coming from his heart! Go God!!!
Our youngest son was having a birthday and through all of this he has sacrificed a lot for us to be able to spend the time we do at the ROCK. He has donated game systems, games and even let the ROCK use his drums. He was born on superbowl Sunday and had always been called a superbowl baby. We let him have a birthday/superbowl party there this past weekend. In planning for it he asked us if he could invite 4 of the young guys we have been working with. We said Jake this is your party and you don’t have to include the ROCK students. He said to us but I have grown to love them and they never get to come to a regular birthday party and I want them to come. Jake had his friends there and also his 4 new friends. They had so much fun. They didn’t just dig into the food, they asked us to fix their plates – it was so obvious this was not something they were use to. At the end of the night when everyone had left the boys were still there (of course – they needed a ride home). It was so God ordained. They asked Howard to help them with their myspace. They said there lives had changed and they didn’t want to show gang stuff on their myspace. They all had made their myspace look like they were in gangs. They had gang pictures showing them to be in the “Lacy Street” gang and symbols on there not to mention the ugly songs that were on there. Howard pulled out our camera took all new pictures of the boys and one by one helped them clean up their my space. PRAISE GOD!!! They no longer have the gang representation on there. Even during something that wasn’t suppose to be a ROCK sponsored function – God still got to work.
Last Thursday night my father taught at the ROCK. He has taught once before and the students love him. He hangs out with us on Thursday nights and ministers to the students. He taught on I AM – who God is. 10 students were saved that night and 6 made decisions to turn their lives around. When Pop teaches you can hear a pin drop – it is like there is a sense of respect there that is incredible.
Remember the 3 guitars I told you that were donated in December to the ROCK from Werner Brothers in Nashville for guitar lessons – well here’s an update on that – Howard went over to the Guitar Discount place around the corner from the ROCK to see if there was anyone who could teach guitar lessons. The man ended up telling Howard that for every trade in he gets that he wanted to donated the trade in to the ROCK – warning that it doesn’t happen often. Well we now have 5 acoustical guitars and 2 electric to learn on. The man walked the guitars over with Howard to the ROCK and said you know it is a funny thing – I very rarely have trade ins and this week I have had so many. They both laughed and said I guess God is at work! This nice Christian man from The Dwelling Place Church has also offered to re-string any guitars of students who have their own and want to take lessons. From what I understand on Tuesday afternoon this week there were 3 young students in his center getting their guitars re-strung getting ready for Thursday lessons. We have a nice man from Saint Anna’s Catholic church who has offered to teach lessons every Thursday afternoon before the ROCK opens. He has made up 12 packets with lessons in it and has got everything ready for the first class that begins today. This man is retired and has come and visited with us the past few Thursday nights and joined in with Praise and Worship. He loves to play worship songs on his guitar – How cool is God????
Our sound board was on its last leg and we needed a new one for us to be able to have any music at all at the ROCK. We have praise and worship on Thursday nights and the students dance to music on Friday and Saturday night. We needed a 24 channel board for everything to work ( I think I am saying that right). We had been praying for God to make a way for us to purchase one and Pastor Todd from First Baptist called and said they had a board that was put away and not being used – he wasn’t sure if we could use it or not. Well guess what – it was the exact 24 channel board that we needed! And praise God – again He met our needs.
I think He is showing us who is in control here. It is so much fun to see the principles that He teaches us in His Word come to life. The Faith thing is so hard sometimes and time and time again He shows us over and over that He has His hands all in this. I am so reminded of the scripture that is in the Bible that talks about how we should be like the birds and just not worry – He will provide…….. Don’t we serve such an awesome God. God has brought me to a place in my faith of finally getting it and understanding that God doesn’t want us to manipulate or try to make things work. He just wants our hearts and souls to be available so He can use us as vessels to get things done. This past year has been a year of trials and definately a year of tribulations! Howard and I went through one of the toughest things a parent can go through when we first started thinking of trying to follow God’s lead on opening a student center. Our oldest son was diagnosed with cancer and went through chemo and lots of other trials where he almost lost his life. We had no other choice but to trust God. At the time we could not understand why this was happening to us. Why, why, why we kept on asking. But through the trials we had to learn to trust God for EVERYTHING!!!! It was the hardest thing I have ever done. And now as a family we all look back and say through the things that happened look what He was preparing us for. We all know that He allowed us to go through what we went through so we could help others and have faith to know that He will provide for the things He wants us to do!
Please continue to pray for us as we try to lead and teach these students. What an honor it is that God allows me to be a part of this weekly to serve these students and watch lives be changed and see them give out love now, but most of all to know that souls are being saved and lives are being changed and when we all get to heaven – oh what a day of rejoicing that will be!
God bless you –
Karen Forman
